Love letters reveal how World War II soldier courted sweetheart during wartime

A collection of over 200 intimate love letters, chronicling a couple’s courtship and marriage during the Second World War, is now digitally accessible through the Nashville Public Library.

The trove offers a poignant insight into romance amidst global conflict.

Penned by William Raymond Whittaker and Jane Dean, the letters were discovered in a Nashville residence that had belonged to Jane and her siblings.

They were subsequently donated to the Metro Nashville Archives in 2016.

William Raymond Whittaker, known as Ray, hailed from New Rochelle, New York.

He relocated to the Tennessee capital to attend the historically Black Meharry Medical College, where he met and began dating Jane, a fellow student, according to Kelley Sirko, the library’s metropolitan archivist.

The pair lost contact after Ray departed Nashville. In the summer of 1942, he was conscripted into the Army.

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While stationed at Fort Huachuca in Arizona, he decided to re-establish contact with Jane, who was then working as a medical lab technician at Vanderbilt University.

The library doesn't have Ray's first letter to Jane, but it does have her reply. She greets him somewhat formally as “Dear Wm R.”

“It sure was a pleasant and sad surprise to hear from you," she writes on 30 July, 1942.

"Pleasant because you will always hold a place in my heart and its nice to know you think of me once in a while. Sad because you are in the armed forces — maybe I shouldn’t say that but war is so uncertain, however I’m proud to know that you are doing your bit for your country.”

Jane then goes on to list — perhaps as a hint? — a string of mutual acquaintances who have gotten married recently, noting those who have had children or are rumored to be having children. She signs off, “Write, wire or call me real soon — Lovingly Jane.”

“You can’t help but smile when you read through these letters,” Sirko said. “You really can’t. And this was just such an intimate look at two regular people during a really complicated time in our history.”

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Sirko said Nashville archivists have not been able to locate any living relatives of Ray and Jane, so most of what they know about them is from the letters. The couple did not have any children, according to an obituary for Ray, who died in Nashville in 1989.

The donation also included a few photographs and Ray's patch from the historically Black fraternity Alpha Phi Alpha.

Beyond a love story, the collection gives "this in-the-moment perspective of ... what it’s like just navigating certain racial issues, certain gender issues, their work, the life of a soldier, all of these things," Sirko said. That's why the archivists wanted to make it more accessible to the public.

Just two months after the first letters, the romance has heated up. Ray has been assigned to Fort McClellan in Alabama, where he will help organize the reactivated — and segregated — 92nd Infantry Division, which went on to see combat in Europe.

In an undated letter from September 1942, he tells Jane, “I have something very important to tell you when I do see you and you will be surprise to know as to what it is.

"I might even ask you to marry me. One never knows.”

He teases her by saying that if he goes to officer training school, he will be able to “draw down a fat juicey salary” — about $280 a month if he is married and $175 if single.

“Really I can't leave my excess amount of money to the government and must have someone to help me spend it," he writes.

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At first Jane is skeptical. “What makes you think you still love me?” she asks on 23 September. “Is it that you are lonesome and a long way from home. I’m sure I want you to love me but not under those conditions.”

A 24 September letter from Ray is more serious. “Events are changing so rapidly these days that one can't really plan for the future. But I am going to make a decisive decision in matters of most importances," he writes.

Ray says that he had thought he and Jane could not be together because they lived so far apart. He says he dated other women but “I didn’t find the companionship and love that I so dearly wanted to find. All I ran into was trouble and more trouble.”

Soon Ray wins her over, and they are married on Nov. 7 in Birmingham.

In a letter from 9 November, Jane addresses Ray as “my darling husband.” She is rapturous about the marriage but sad that the couple has to remain apart for now. She has already returned to her job and family in Nashville while he has returned to the Army base.

“It’s a wonderful thing to have such and sweet and lovely husband. Darling you’ll never know how much I love you. The only regret is that we didn't marry years ago... As it is now things are so uncertain and we are not together but such a few happy hours. But maybe this old war will soon be over and we can be together for always."

She concludes, “Darling be sweet and write to me soon. I want a letter from my husband. Remember I’ll always love you. Always — from Your Wife”