What an obituary tells us about the person who wrote it
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A study reviewed 38 million American obituaries from 1998 to 2024 to understand how societal values are reflected and shift over time.
The values of "tradition" and "benevolence" were most consistently prominent, appearing in over 70 percent of obituaries, contrasting with less frequent mentions of "achievement" and "power".
Historical events significantly impacted the language used; post-9/11 saw an increase in terms such as “caring,” “loyal” and “service”.
Gender differences were observed, with men's obituaries more often linked to achievement, conformity and power, and women's focusing on benevolence and enjoying life’s pleasures.
Obituaries for older adults frequently emphasised "tradition," whereas those for younger adults highlighted values such as the "welfare of all people" and "independence."